This is somthing i wrote 2 years ago.

10/1/2004
Most of the time we find ourselves stuck in one vicious circle
interpreted as routine. Following one particular routine limits the
thought process and kind of acts as leverage on our thinking depth.
Focusing on the goal is the second most important thing. We, as
individuals, have to determine our goal and the road that would lead
to the conception of our goals. Once we start focusing on our goals,
we will have a better chance of not getting distracted by the little
picture such as routine. Focusing on the bigger picture might not
completely stop us from getting distracted but at the same time it
would automatically compel us to walk on the passage that leads
towards our final destination.
Another most important thing is that one should be inclined to find
the answers in the future, or in the time that we don't consciously
aware of. One more important point to note is that if this world is
illusionist then where does the reality lie. One way to look at it is
that we are in our own past. Every moment we re-live leads us to the
presence, which has the answers. Consequently, one has to try and
figure the presence out. Once we recall what is happening in our
presence, we would find out that we are so much more satisfied as the
element of surprise is eliminated from the whole scenario.
And, everything that happens to us has a reason. There is no such
thing as coincidence, its just about figuring out the inevitable.
The last and the most interesting thing is that satisfaction does not
lie in winning or losing in any circumstance. The satisfaction comes
from the process of wining or losing. Sometime one might be more happy
losing, but the important thing is the whole process, the game, should
never stop, because once the process stops, the life would have less
pleasure. It will just be more of an exertion!